It Doesn’t Matter, It Doesn’t Matter, It Doesn’t Matter Because It’s Time to Reject the Rejecter
by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Copyright 2006-2018
Author, “Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You” (Da Capo 2009)
Author, “Getting Back Out There: Tips for Successful Dating and Finding Real Love After the Big Breakup” (Da Capo 2015)
Author, “Getting Past Your Past: The Definitive Workbook for Healing, Health and Happiness” (La Bella Vita Publishing 2013)
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This post is the most popular on the blog and has been for over 10 years. It is one of the posts that made the original blog, back in 2006, go “viral”Every now and again I move it up so new people can find it although it’s been ripped off by others many times over the years.
It’s hard but it happens.
And it hurts.
You love someone who may have loved you once upon a time.
You love someone who acted like there was a possibility of love in return,
but now there’s not.
You love someone who simply doesn’t feel the same way
and isn’t going to feel the same way.
You loved someone deeply who loved you deeply and then this person just switched off and hurt you in ways that were unimaginable at the height of your mutual love.
This person loved you and you loved them but then someone new came along and they left. Friends tell you that you are better than this new person in every way.
But your ex is still with Mr. or Ms. New Thing.
Whatever the situation, you’re left with excruciating pain.