Author Archives: Susan J. Elliott

1/29 Check In

New check in thread! How is everyone doing? If you’re new to the blog, you are able to paste your last check in to the new thread if it came at the tail end of the last discussion. As we … Continue reading

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Loneliness as a Risk of Returning To a Bad Relationship

“One of the first steps of recovery is to develop a full life for yourself. Nothing happens until that occurs. Have a plan what to do if you get lonely so you don’t do the disasterous ‘Drink and Dial!’ Or … Continue reading

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1/9/16

First check in of 2016 How is everyone doing? If you posted at the end of the last check in thread, feel free to repost here. How is everyone doing?

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GPYB Seminar Series and Study Hall

Seminar Series and Study Hall Starts On 1/4 If you are subscribed via PayPal, you should have received instructions to register or access. Please let me know if you did not!!! To preview the forums, go here: http://www.GettingPastYourBreakup.com/forums You can … Continue reading

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Your Right To Swing Your Arm….

…ends at the tip of my nose. Reposting this as I mentioned it in comments. I wrote it about 4 or 5 years ago and reposted it a time or two since. Since I wrote this, I’ve gotten much better … Continue reading

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A New Year, A New You

We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our … Continue reading

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12/28 Check In Thread

How is everyone doing? If you’re new and introduced yourself in the last check in thread, please feel free to copy your intro to here so everyone can see it. I have been setting up the study hall. It is … Continue reading

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Being Part of the Solution

I post a similar post every year. This is this year’s post. In 2016, Resolve To Be Part of the Solution

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If It Talks Like A Codep and Walks Like A Codep

I was watching Hot Bench and the plaintiff worked her butt off to put the defendant on his feet. When they met he had just gotten out of prison, didn’t have a job, had a suspended license. She paid bills, … Continue reading

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Introductions

If you are new to the blog, please put your introduction in the check-in thread. It changes every few weeks (after 100 or so comments). If it changes right after you post, feel free to copy and post to the … Continue reading

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