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Independence Day NC Chips

We have not done NC chips in a LONG time but there are many people who are struggling BUT succeeding at NC so I want you to come and get your chip!!!! Also, it is Independence Day weekend in the … Continue reading

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Deciding to Move On…Or Not

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. ~ Helen Keller Who doesn’t “get over” it? There … Continue reading

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More From the Mail Vault: When We Do Everything Wrong

My boyfriend and I broke up in April and shortly after we broke up he starting dating this girl. As it turns out, they turned into ‘just friends’, well more like she wanted a relationship with him, and he kind … Continue reading

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6/17 Check In Thread

How is everyone doing?

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Judge Show Humiliation

I was watching a judge show and a woman was suing her ex boyfriend for money she loaned him (take a page out of GBOT and NEVER NEVER NEVER lend someone money that you are in a relationship with unless … Continue reading

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Filling The Void With Everything But Self-Love

I remember walking around New York City as a child and as a teenager and feeling melancholy. I looked for my birth brother even though I had no idea what he would look like since the last time I saw … Continue reading

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The Wha Wha Wha Why Me Meltdown

Getting better is not a contest with our oblivious ex who is just going on as if nothing happened. It’s not a contest with our friend who left bananahead A and is now engaged to someone she considers the most … Continue reading

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Demand Your Keys Back

When I work with clients, I give them a lot of homework as they can all attest to. Sometimes they balk and sometimes they drag their feet or get busy or something came up. So when I give assignments I … Continue reading

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5/31 Check In Post

How is everyone doing?

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Mail. We Get Mail on “Will I Survive This?”

I appreciate the emails I’ve gotten about re-running some of the Mail posts. Here is another one that addresses some concerns of some of you. Hi Susan, First, I would like to say that I have read your book and … Continue reading

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