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Passive-Aggressive People (or “Why, Yes, You Make Me Crazy!”)

Requested Repost:Passive Aggressive Personalities We’ve talked lately about the over-the-top abusers and cheaters. Now to turn to those who are underhandedly crazy making…the passive aggressive. The PA does not punch you in the face. The PA makes you want to … Continue reading

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8/23 Check-in Post

How is everyone doing?

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Affirming Platitudes

Every now and again, we publish the GPYB Platitudes. For those who struggle with affirmations and positive statements, here are some to memorize and remember as you move about your days and nights. These are the top 13. They began … Continue reading

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It’s All My Fault

There is a theme in comments lately. It seems to be “My ex did all these horrible things and I screwed up.” This is how bad it can get and how you can recover. I had this as part of … Continue reading

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GPYB Book 3

I am working on a possible sequel to GPYB which is expounding on the topics in there (rather than GBOT which is for when you are ready to learn about new and loving relationships). It’s somewhat of an extension of … Continue reading

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Dear Bananahead (or Bananaheadette)

It’s been almost five years since I first wrote this and I get a request for it every few months, so here it is again: This is a convenient cut and paste for everyone who wants to go back to/stay … Continue reading

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On Love

I love this article and Thich Nhat Hanh’s teachings. Please read how loving yourself FIRST enables you to fully love others. http://www.brainpickings.org/2015/03/31/how-to-love-thich-nhat-hanh

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Workbook Post

If you’re working in the workbook and have question, feel free to ask them here. If you have the answer to a question, feel free to answer it and help out a fellow blogger (or just share how you did … Continue reading

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Getting Out Of An Abusive Relationship

This is a post I wrote for Psychology Today and I’m sure that long-time readers are familiar with a lot of what’s in here, but I invite you to comment here or there or MORE IMPORTANTLY, post anywhere you think … Continue reading

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Answers on the Questions Post

Here are some of the Questions I received by email. If your question isn’t here, I’m working on it. I am going in for surgery on Friday so it might be a bit before I answer the next batch, but … Continue reading

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