Remember me? It’s been about 3 months. I took your advice and moved out of this small European town and moved to a larger town instead. My ex-boyfriend is no longer directly across the street from me and neither are the watchful eyes of his mother. I moved at the end of July. I went to the US to visit my family for one month. There, I had a big fallout with my mother and told her to never contact me again.
Please keep in mind that during the past few months I have been struggling with the break-up(I’m doing much better now) with my ex, who is a full-blown narcissist. I am not exaggerating and he meets, I believe, 8 of the criteria for narcissism. I joined the support group on the net called The Web of Narcissism and this seems to be helpful. I even find myself giving support and helpful advice (I hope so) to others who are just coming out of their relationships.