Category Archives: breakup

The Annual Post-Breakup Holidays Post

This blog started on November 29, 2006. This post below was one of the first posts and received ASTOUNDING responses from around the globe! I post it every year in it’s original – unedited form. Hope it helps.   “I … Continue reading

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Replaced by the Ex in a Very Public Way?

Time to #GetOverIt! by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Copyright 2018 All Right Reserved This may not be copied or duplicated without the express permission of the author Someone in the Facebook group mentioned the anxiety surrounding when the ex … Continue reading

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Leaving The Abusive Relationship

Part 1 of 4: I Didn’t Know That I Didn’t Know By Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Copyright 2008-2018 All rights reserved A rerun for the FB group. Abuse can be physical, mental, emotional, verbal and sexual. It can be but … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 36A Show Notes

  Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Grief and Loss Part 1 of 3 Show Notes and Player for Episode 36A See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite platform: iTunes, … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 35 Show Notes

  Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about TEXTING!!!! Show Notes and Player for Episode 35  See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite platform: iTunes, GooglePlay, SoundCloud, Stitcher, Spotify, TuneIn … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 34 Part 2 Show Notes

  Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Listener Email with Two Long Podcsts Show Notes and Player for Episode 34 Part 2 See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 34 Part 1 Show Notes

  Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Listener Email with Two Long Podcsts Show Notes and Player for Episode 34 See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite platform: iTunes, … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 33 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Codependency and Building A Life Show Notes and Player for Episode 33 See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite platform: iTunes, GooglePlay, SoundCloud, … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 32 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Listener Email   Today we answer several listener emails Show Notes and Player for Episode 32 See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite platform: … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 31 Show Notes

  Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Grief and Loss Today we discuss grief and loss Show Notes and Player for Episode 31 See below for links to listen and subscribe on your … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 30 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Listener Email   “Because I Love Him/Her”  Today we answer TWO Listener Emails, one male and one female, who both have issues with their exes and want to … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 29 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about  Mixed Messages! What to do when someone is lying or confused or just has no idea what he or she is talking about? Show Notes and Player … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 28 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about  Listener Email and Communication! We have 2 letters:  the first is about a narcissist’s abusive communication toward the child’s coparent and the second is about communication DURING … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 27 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about  Navigating the Legal System with the Personality Disordered! The 3rd in a 5 part series as to how to deal with these destructive people when you have … Continue reading

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Don’t Give Up The Day Before The Miracle Happens

by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. “….in the spring becomes the rose…” Please don’t give up the day before the miracle happens. I ended my marriage at least 4 years after I wanted to. The reasons were varied and complicated, … Continue reading

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