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The Annual Post-Breakup Holidays Post

This blog started on November 29, 2006. This post below was one of the first posts and received ASTOUNDING responses from around the globe! I post it every year in it’s original – unedited form. Hope it helps.   “I … Continue reading

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Leaving The Abusive Relationship

Part 1 of 4: I Didn’t Know That I Didn’t Know By Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Copyright 2008-2018 All rights reserved A rerun for the FB group. Abuse can be physical, mental, emotional, verbal and sexual. It can be but … Continue reading

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Men As Stalking Victims, Part 2: 10 Things To Know For Safety’s Sake

Would Travis Alexander and/or Ryan Poston be alive today if everyone was duly informed about men as stalking victims? by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed.   There is a fine line between serendipity and stalking. ~ David Coleman What Is Stalking … Continue reading

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No Contact: Searching and the Rules of Disengagement

No contact is hard, but so important to healing by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Pining is the subjective and emotional component of urge to search for the lost object. ~ Colin Murray Parkes. Colin Murray Parkes was a grief … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 36A Show Notes

  Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Grief and Loss Part 1 of 3 Show Notes and Player for Episode 36A See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite platform: iTunes, … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 35 Show Notes

  Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about TEXTING!!!! Show Notes and Player for Episode 35  See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite platform: iTunes, GooglePlay, SoundCloud, Stitcher, Spotify, TuneIn … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 34 Part 2 Show Notes

  Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Listener Email with Two Long Podcsts Show Notes and Player for Episode 34 Part 2 See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 34 Part 1 Show Notes

  Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Listener Email with Two Long Podcsts Show Notes and Player for Episode 34 See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite platform: iTunes, … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 33 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Codependency and Building A Life Show Notes and Player for Episode 33 See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite platform: iTunes, GooglePlay, SoundCloud, … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 32 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Listener Email   Today we answer several listener emails Show Notes and Player for Episode 32 See below for links to listen and subscribe on your favorite platform: … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 31 Show Notes

  Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Grief and Loss Today we discuss grief and loss Show Notes and Player for Episode 31 See below for links to listen and subscribe on your … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 30 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about Listener Email   “Because I Love Him/Her”  Today we answer TWO Listener Emails, one male and one female, who both have issues with their exes and want to … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 29 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about  Mixed Messages! What to do when someone is lying or confused or just has no idea what he or she is talking about? Show Notes and Player … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 28 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast! In this episode, we’re talking about  Listener Email and Communication! We have 2 letters:  the first is about a narcissist’s abusive communication toward the child’s coparent and the second is about communication DURING … Continue reading

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The Aftermath of a Breakup with the Personality Disordered

After a bit of a hiatus, the “Navigating the Aftermath of a Breakup with the Personality Disordered (or at the very least, highly dysfunctional)” book, bootcamp and podcast episodes are moving along very very well. As one of the few … Continue reading

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