Category Archives: loss

Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 14 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast This is the podcast that tackles tough questions about relationships, life, love and loss. The Mean Lady Podcast is hosted by grief therapist, motivational speaker, best-selling author and attorney, Susan J. Elliott To … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 13 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode 13 This is the podcast that tackles tough questions about relationships, life, love and loss. The Mean Lady Podcast is hosted by grief therapist, motivational speaker, best-selling author and attorney, Susan J. … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 11 Show Notes

Welcome to the Episode 11  about Getting Over It! To see a list of all episodes, complete with a player listing all episodes, go HERE To see all episodes and to subscribe via iTunes go HERE To see all Show … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 12 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 12 – last of the “pre-recorded” Mail. We Get Mail. And the lady gets mean on Letter 3 To see a list of all episodes, complete with a player listing all … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 10

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast This is the podcast that tackles tough questions about relationships, life, love and loss. The Mean Lady Podcast is hosted by grief therapist, motivational speaker, best-selling author and attorney, Susan J. Elliott To … Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode 7

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast. This is the podcast that tackles tough questions about relationships, life, love and loss. The Mean Lady Podcast is hosted by grief therapist, motivational speaker, best-selling author and attorney, Susan J. Elliott To … Continue reading

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Recycling in Grief or What? Not Here Again!

Requested repost “Grief is a spiral. But am I going up or coming down?” ~ C.S. Lewis I talk about recycling in GBOT because dating often triggers recycling, but so does an anniversary date, the ex’s birthday, moving into your … Continue reading

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There’s Hope after Heartbreak: 5 Things to Help You Heal

Don’t give up the day before the miracle happens Every few months I read an article about someone who committed suicide after a breakup or a person who went on a shooting rampage after a breakup. I urge people to spread the … Continue reading

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My Relationship Ended. Now What?

How to face your loss, feel your feelings, and come out stronger than ever by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Time does not heal all wounds. If it did, no one would have unresolved loss or be bitter years after a breakup.  … Continue reading

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Breakups and Our Unresolved Losses

It’s important to recognize and honor all our losses and heal through grief. by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Copyright @2008-2017 When I was younger, I would break up with someone and be okay for the first day. Then suddenly, … Continue reading

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Building Your Own Life

Don’t be afraid your life will end; be afraid it will never begin. ~ Grace Hansen This post was written a year before the book was published and when Michael was well (I mention him at the bottom of the … Continue reading

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Holidays and me-all year round

I wrote about the first Christmas and New Year’s alone 10 months after my separation but not about much before that. After a VERY bumpy beginning, things had been going well that fall and I wasn’t prepared to be as … Continue reading

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On Rising Up From the Ashes

This was one of the first posts I wrote on the blog. I was reading the through the first few blog posts and thought this would be a good one to run.  This is one that is partially in the … Continue reading

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On Narcissism

by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Copyright Ⓒ All Rights Reserved No part of this may be copied without written permission of the author Question: How many narcissists does it take to change a light bulb. Answer: Just one. The … Continue reading

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8/8 TFTD ~ On Accepting Your Partner

If you’re trying to change your patterns in relationships, the first thing to do is to spend some time observing people when you are dating. Look at them, figure them out. Stop trying to make a good impression on THEM … Continue reading

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