Category Archives: NC

Switching gears….or not

The Space You Need Is The Space To Learn What You Need by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed. Copyright 2017 – All Rights Reserved. When I was convinced that my cheating husband had used a snowstorm to stay 45 miles … Continue reading

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Sunday Chips

Celebrating milestones is important to people who are resisting negative behavioral impulses.  This post is for the Facebook group. A closed support group. To join go here: And if you do not have the workbook, it’s $5 off on … Continue reading

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Lately I’ve been getting a lot of questions about obsession versus rumination. “One thing leads to another”? Not always. Sometimes one thing leads to the same thing. Ask an addict.” ~ George Carlin As it says in the GPYB book … Continue reading

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