The Aftermath of a Breakup with the Personality Disordered

After a bit of a hiatus, the “Navigating the Aftermath of a Breakup with the Personality Disordered (or at the very least, highly dysfunctional)” book, bootcamp and podcast episodes are moving along very very well.

As one of the few people who truly knows both sides of the “fence,” (as a mental health professional and a legal professional), I truly want the podcasts, the bootcamp and the book to be as helpful as it can be to as many people as it can be.

The book will be a mix of strategies to cope with the aftermath of a breakup with these destructive and ruthless individuals whether or not they have been properly diagnosed as personality-disordered (as most narcissists and sociopaths don’t find their way to get help) or are just very dysfunctional lunatics who harass you.  It will include legal information for those who are going through divorce or co-parenting situations. Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 27 Show Notes

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast!

In this episode, we’re talking about 

Navigating the Legal System with

the Personality Disordered!

The 3rd in a 5 part series as to how to deal with these destructive people when you have to coparent with them and how to bring the attention of the judges, lawyers, CPS workers, therapists and teachers to the right place. What to do and what not to do when dealing with divorce, child visitation, child support, with a very difficult person.


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Don’t Give Up The Day Before The Miracle Happens

by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed.

“….in the spring becomes the rose…”

Please don’t give up the day before the miracle happens.

I ended my marriage at least 4 years after I wanted to. The reasons were varied and complicated, but most of it was about keeping my unresolved loss and my enormous grief and abandonment issues at bay. I held onto to a horrible marriage to keep the even more horrible memories from flooding in. Continue reading

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Rejection, Disapproval & The Hit To Self-Esteem

rejection1by Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed.

9 Ways To Bounce Back After Rejection or Disapproval Comes To Call

I wrote this a long time ago, but it’s true today. And I’m sending it out to a few people who need to hear this.

I have not edited the original (and Michael was here so he’s mentioned). Whenever I read back on things that happened when he was here and well and I think of the STUPID things I was obsessing about instead of enjoying my life with him, I get angry. Don’t let people rent space in your head they don’t pay for:
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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode 26 Show Notes

Welcome to the

Mean Lady Talking Podcast

This episode is Talking About Honesty in On-Line Dating From Little White Lies to Full-Blown Catfishing! And 7 Rules to KEEP YOU SAFE!!! Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 25 Show Notes

Mean Lady Talking PodcastWelcome to the

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This episode is Talking About Destructive Relationships, Fear of Intimacy and Becoming Healthy

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 24 Show Notes

Welcome to the

Mean Lady Talking Podcast

This episode is MORE

Talking About Is My Boyfriend a Narcissist?  – Listener Email!

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 23 Show Notes

Welcome to the

Mean Lady Talking Podcast

This episode is MORE

Talking About Recycling in Breakup Grief

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 22 Show Notes

Welcome to the

Mean Lady Talking Podcast

This episode is MORE

Talking About Dating and Self-Revelations, Standards and Fooling Ourselves

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Female Stalking Victims: Emma Walker

I am doing an upcoming podcast on Female Stalking Victims, leading off with the murder of Emma Walker as reported by Dateline earlier this week.

I did one on Male Stalking Victims (leading off with Travis Alexander and Ryan Poston) in Episode 19 HERE 

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Blog Move = Broken Links (the longer version of the above explanation)

Broken links? Continue to find the fix: Continue reading

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 21 Show Notes

Welcome to the

Mean Lady Talking Podcast

This episode is MORE

Talking About Grief and Unresolved Losses

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode Number 19 Show Notes

stalkingWelcome to the

Mean Lady Talking Podcast

This episode is

Talking About Male Stalking Victims

1/3 of all stalking victims are men.   It is TOO LARGE a number to ignore the fact that we have not accommodated them in the legal system and have not protected them as they should.  This podcast is for Travis Alexander and Ryan Poston.

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